Lower School definition of bullying
Bullying is an ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships through repeated verbal, physical and/or social behavior that intends to cause physical, social and/or psychological harm. It can involve an individual or a group misusing their power, or perceived power, over one or more persons who feel unable to stop it from happening.
Bullying can happen in person or online, via various digital platforms and devices and it can be obvious (overt) or hidden (covert). Bullying behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time (for example, through sharing of digital records).
Bullying of any form or for any reason can have immediate, medium and long-term effects on those involved, including bystanders. Single incidents and conflict or fights between equals, whether in person or online, are not defined as bullying.
What bullying is not:
- isolated episodes of social rejection or dislike
- isolated episodes of nastiness or spite
- random acts of aggression or intimidation
- mutual arguments, disagreements or fights.
These actions can cause great distress. However, they do not fit the definition of bullying and they’re not examples of bullying unless someone is deliberately and repeatedly doing them.
1. Awareness
ZIS students:
- explicitly learn the ZIS Character Standards
- build positive relationships with others.
- talk about the behaviors of bullies, victims, bystanders and defenders.
- help students who are being bullied.
- include students who are easily left out.
- tell an adult at school or at home if they witness bullying.
- understand the rules and how they will be enforced.
- learn pro-social behaviors.
- are responsible for their actions.
2. Intervention
We will investigate all complaints made by students, parents and staff. Counseling strategies may follow that can offer a guided and effective process to assist students.
3. Consequences
In case of bullying, parents will be contacted and appropriate consequences and support will be put into place.